THE UNCOMFORTABLE MONKEY IN THE MIDDLE
In the natural world we often talk about the phenomenon of
fight or flight, about aggression and the reaction to it, but one that is
omitted and which applies even more so to the human world, is fright, the uncomfortable
monkey in the middle. Fright is a
paralyzing, passive reaction; an emotion based on fear which affects most of us
when escape is elusive and doubtful, whereas fight and flight are active verbs. Action, not inaction. An escape is attempted so that you may live
another day. We’re not exactly inspired
by a character trait like fright that affects most of us, and that mostly
includes running with the herd. An
instinctive herd reaction that is neither perceived as noble nor worthy of any
prize winning medals. Fright and fear
are regarded as shameful attributes, cowardly and unworthy. Yet fright and fear have played a huge part
in human history and have led to the slaughter of millions of innocent men,
women and children, the hapless victims of aggression. And another uncomfortable truth: the longer
people cower in fear and fail to resist, the worse the aggression gets out of
hand. Violence that is not checked spins
out of control as wars and conflicts drag on.
Fright and fear dehumanize the victims of aggression. They’re no longer treated as human beings,
but as a lesser species that deserves to be exterminated. Ukraine and Gaza come to mind! Nearly 100 million people across the world
are refugees. When it comes to innocent
victims the numbers are staggering.

During World War II millions of Jews were systematically
rounded up, put onto cattle cars and shipped to concentration camps where most
of them met a gruesome death. There are
images of thousands of Jews standing on railroad platforms with only a handful
of armed guards in attendance. Why
didn’t they try to overpower their captors?
Yes, dozens might have been shot, but it could have saved hundreds!
Fight or flight is only
effective in small numbers. Aggression
and resistance is the domain of those who are hardwired for action.
And ask yourself. Where
would a large group of people go? There
is no realistic escape and most are filled with disbelief. Where is the flight plan? The organization? Very few Jews actually dared to escape and
most were rounded up and housed in ghettos.
They were devastated by the fact that suddenly they were hunted down
like animals and despised, that it was open season on Jews and that flight was
the only option left. Flight, so that
you could fight another day. Most of
them didn’t!
Fear and fright belong
to the masses.
Instead it was fright and fear that struck the masses and it
zapped any kind of resistance. A passive,
helpless surrender because flight and fight require purpose and
organization. What connects the masses
is fear. And the answer I have alluded
to is so simple because most of us are not wired for fight or flight. Over time all resistance is bled out of the
victims and a sense of defeat and resignation takes over.
The masses have always
been the easy target.
The scariest part: evil
wears a normal face.
Look at the images of the tens of thousands of Gazan citizens
snaking their way through the rubble of what once was their city, now lying in
ruins around their feet. Deliberately
forced to constantly move. From one tent
city to the other and never feeling safe.
Beaten into submission by hunger, thirst and by fear and fright. And all around them the aggressors keep up
the pressure and it’s like shooting fish in a barrel. Aggression brings out the worst in people. The kind of suffering that is inflicted will
leave behind a psychological damage that will fester for decades. And there is no doubt in my mind that a deep
seethed hatred and resentment will set in once the violence stops and a
rebuilding takes place.
Why are we turning a blind eye to genocide and ethnic
cleansing and do so little? Glad it’s
them and not us? Fear! Deep down in our hearts we know that we would
not act or behave any differently. Not
that we’re cowards and would willingly allow ourselves to be slaughtered, but
because we belong to the masses and we’re not raised to fight or know how to
fight back when the unthinkable happens and a nation or race is caught up in vindictive
struggle for survival.
We, the masses, when
disaster strikes, we’re that uncomfortable monkey in the middle.
During and after the holocaust many Jews made their way to
Palestine in the hope of establishing a new state of Israel in what once was their
ancestral home, before the diaspora and the pogroms and before being evicted
and persecuted from one nation to the other.
Determination and hope and a renewed sense of identity and a political
resolve never to let this happen again.
A renewed sense of cultural and national identity is not unique to the
Jews. It takes place all around the
world and throughout human history nations have reasserted their identity,
culture and language. In happened in
Poland on a number of occasions. A
nation attacked numerous times, divided, occupied and destroyed and yet they
keep coming back stronger and more determined every time. However, a growing sense of nationalism and
patriotism only takes place with intent and purpose in a small percentage of
the population. The masses will go along
with the current flavor of the month because it is easier to follow than to
lead. What comes to mind is the Blue
Jays baseball fever that hit Canada in 2025 when the team made it to the world
finals. They have always had a hardcore
base of fans and followers, but the nation as a whole was temporarily infected
by their enthusiasm, excited to follow and cheer on the team. Friedrich Nietzsche: Insanity in the
individual is rare, but quite common in the masses.
However, another uncomfortable
truth: enthusiasm in the masses never lasts long.
Follow and obey.
We, the masses, are raised to be followers, to work, to be
compliant and behave. It’s a group
thing. We’re following a pattern that
applies to most animal species. There
are a few who lead, a small group of enforcers, soldiers, protectors, and the
bulk consists of workers. In a military
family the offspring is much more likely to follow in their parents’ footsteps
and join, than for someone with no military background signing up.
We don’t raise our offspring to become strong individuals,
critical, taught to take charge and aggressively pursue a unique and individual
path through life. Our institutions
guide and mold people into predictable patterns of behavior, to induce cooperation,
conformity and compliance. The domain of
fight and flight belongs to a select few and what we have induced in the masses
is a longing for peace, normality, food, shelter and security. It is a basic structure that has served the
natural world well. Does it make sense
that a few rule and live well while the masses struggle and go out of their way
to provide wealth and all the essentials to those lucky few? You would probably say no, yet most of us
fall into that pattern. Fear and fright
paralyze the masses because there is no easy way out.
It is the mass in
masses that prevents an escape.
The Russian revolution was supposed to usher in a workers
paradise. The masses first. Shedding centuries of abuse and neglect by
the nation’s nobility and the Romanov family that ruled with an iron fist. In reality communist rule created a whole new
layer of control that didn’t differ much from the yoke they had just shed with
a whole lot of fanfare and international hoopla. The apparatchiks and the party elite created
a society along similar lines as that of the Tsar. A few living well and the masses continuing
to struggle as usual.
Although democracy has to be the most fair and equitable
system of governance it is not immune from abuse. Fail to corral greed and unchecked power and
it degenerates into a society where the elite have all the wealth and exercise
all the control. For reasons I cannot
fathom we continue to worship wealth, status, titles and possessions. Tesla shareholders granting Elon Musk
ludicrous bonuses, artificially inflating share prices and extorting huge
lucrative government contracts and concessions is but one example of how deep
we have sunk in protecting our democracies from blatant power grabs and
abuse. Every century spawns a whole new
collection of the Super Rich who don’t hesitate to flaunt their wealth and
influence. And we, the masses, are eager
to assist them with tax havens, exemptions and loopholes big enough to drive a
truck through. We have perpetrated these
ludicrous schemes throughout human history.
And it doesn’t matter how you dress it up.
Evil chills the heart
in so many ways that even love shivers in its presence.
Aggression in the masses only erupts when demanded by a
nation’s leadership and the highest level of aggression is predominant in those
who lead. And the main reason why there
is such a willingness at their level to use violence is simply due to the fact
that not a single one of them will be first in line at the battlefront. The natural world is rife with similar
examples and I always like to go back to the lion pride. Every pride has a dominant male and female
and then there are those who lead a hunt and the rest of the pride are
followers. Why mention this? We’re neither unique nor special. Most of our behaviors hark back to our
primitive past and we follow similar power structures because it seems to
work. If we programmed our youngsters to
question and explore, to raise them to aggressively pursue their own path
through life, we would be at each other’s throat in no time flat.
I have stated in previous articles that most of us are
basically underachievers and lazy and we’re not alone in this department. Almost all animal species are wired that way
and we’re no different. Just worse!
Politicians start wars with words and the masses end up
fighting them with bullets. It is an
insane scenario that is played out over and over again and with the same
predictable results. We’re either
workers and contributors or cannon fodder.
We’re the uncomfortable monkey in the middle. War is the worst thing to be exposed to and I
hope that my explanations about fear and fright are hitting home. There is no leeway for the masses. If all of us were raised as aggressors we
would be killing each other in record time.
Few of us are able to kill and there is a reason why we recruit
youngsters barely leaving their teens to become soldiers. Most of them are unattached and don’t have families
of their own. They’re easy to manipulate
and indoctrinate. And the masses are
pressured to glorify their contribution to the nation’s so-called freedom. War is a net-negative activity that doesn’t
make us stronger or turns a society into warrior addicts. Celebrating the needless killing and
glorifying it as noble is the kind of stuff left to historians and writers, who
will turn everything into an epic battle, heroic and totally justified. Why we resorted once more to violence is an
inconvenient detail.

We have become experts at massaging the minds of the masses
so that we accept sacrifice and the loss of human life as a necessary
sacrifice. We do lie a lot and love to
put a positive spin on even the most gruesome events in human history. Remembrance Day in Canada is getting bigger
and bigger, despite the fact that few survivors remain of the last big
war. Sentiments are being ramped up to
new highs and there is a valid reason why we try to make it personal and that
all of us feel obliged to wear a poppy.
We’re cranking up the emotions within the masses to new highs because
we’re being primed for the next battle.
Farfetched? Canada is investing
billions more in upgrading its military capacity. It is being pressured by the US and NATO to
increase its spending well past 2 percent to 5 percent of GDP.
Ramping up the threats
and the conflicts.
Setting the stage for a
new global was.
The US has bombed a nuclear facility in Iran, dropped bombs
on suspected Yemen rebel bases, verbal threats about invading Sudan, military
strikes obliterating suspected fishing boats from Venezuela carrying
drugs. Threats and belligerent
statements are issued on a near daily basis.
When aggressive rhetoric ramps up around the world and ongoing conflicts
show no signs of a solution, it usually ends up in a violent
confrontation. And again, history is
proof that once verbal threats escalate, real violence is just around the
corner.
And don’t get me wrong.
When I see the faces of old veterans on Remembrance Day my heart weeps
because I can empathize with their loss.
They came back while they left thousands of their comrades behind in
mass military gravesites. I know
loss. Our first born died at age 32, a
dear friend and my youngest sister died from cancer at an early age and I lost
my mother at age 21. But I have never
suffered the deprivation brought on by war, the dehumanizing brutality. I am at a loss to comprehend our aberrant
aggressive behaviors because it doesn’t correlate with that supposedly higher
and advanced intelligence of ours. What
we’re doing to each other and the planet defies all explanations.

If you are a faithful follower of my articles you will have
noticed that I don’t subscribe to the notion that we’re the product of divine
inspiration. Our actions and activities
belie that fact despite the promissory notes slipped into every major religion
that leave us filled with hope, even if we totally screw up on Earth, that
somehow resurrection and eternal life awaits believers.
What do you think? Do
you think we’re headed in the right direction or the wrong one? We, the masses, we have been lied to, taken
advantage of, used and abused. We’re
that uncomfortable monkey in the middle.
Is it by design or by choice?
Will it ever change?
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